What parenting has taught me

I'm single, not yet married, hv no child and most important i'm not a parent. But being the eldest in your family has taught you more than you know on how to handle kids. Apparently i'm the eldest out of 4, having two younger brothers and a sister; iqbal(one yr younger than me), amirul zzzz (9 yrs younger) and anis, 7 yrs younger than me. Being 20 yr old sister is challenging especially when confronting anis and amirul sebab dorang ada perangai & ragam memasing macam nak mintak penumbuk je rasa.

This is Kak Eijah's baby gurl.

Ok I used to mengasuh budak when I was 8-9 as ibu gave birth to amirul. To let ppl know ibu is the youngest daughter in her family hence she's lacking in parenting. Maybe sebab she has no adik pastu anak bongsu orang kata cengeng sikit eh betul ke,?

Pastu dah lama-lama anak ibu pun dah besar.

When it comes to serious matter macam "eh your cousin Kak Farina..", "eh your cousin Kak Iwah..", "eh your cousin Kak Nana..., dah bersalinkan? pergilah visit, amik berkat sket zzzzz☺☺ 

Then masa visit nak jumpa baby, seronok tengok dorang dukung-dukung macam anak patung tapi bila sampai my turn nak pegang tu, "eh aku dominant right side ke left side?", "eh macam mana nak dukung?", "eh what should i do?" eh, eh, eh, ishh banyak sangat eh :p

i dont have any idea on how to handle newborn baby. It's slightly different between the kidszz and the newborn infantszz

The other day i went to Pahang and i was surprised to see a baby (anak jiran sebelah umah dia), i asked Aqila, my same age cousin "wei, ko kena ajar aku basic nak pegang baby, so masa aku ada anak nanti takdelah zero knowledge sangat" 

Aqila: hahaha, dah ada calon ke?? dude, what the hell

At first, iye memang rasa kekok sikit lama-lama dah ok then i know la lepas bagi botol susu kat baby then telangkupkan baby untuk sendawakan dia. I were just like iye, iye, iye basic knowledge je kan?

In fact, i'm not a kid-friendly all the way. They're such cute toddlers but again I'm having hard time in dealing with balky toddler tries to throw a temper tantrum AT MEEEEEEE aihhhhhhhhh